Here's one for you then. How the hell do I stop the neighbours cat coming in to my garden and terrorising our cat?
Theirs is male (neutered), ours is female (neutered). He's just a big bloody bully though.
The story is, it used to live here some years ago, then the old tenant did a disappearing act and left the cats, so they lived wild for a couple of years. Then it started trying to get back into our house...and next door 'adopted it'. It still tried to get in here though.
Strange thing is, it craps itself if it's noticed so it knows it's in the wrong. As soon as it knows I've spotted it, it bolts for the door and it's gone....
It's also terrorising our cat (a runt of the litter, but a meek little thing), they fight most of the time. (It sits on our windowsill and they snarl at each other through the window).
Or it will sleep on our garden furniture etc.
As soon as I get the water spray out it runs off, but the sod knows how far the water can reach and just saunters off after that distance. Few minutes later it's in our garden again.
Get the message....**** off! lol
So, how do I deter one cat while not detering our own?