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I went to bed last night with "Understanding exposure" I know exciting wasn't it
but I am going to nail this so be preapared for the stupid questions etc.and I want honest c & c when I post pictures here.
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Smart move, Briony

! That book really helped me a lot when I began with photography, a year ago. Admitteldy, I had to re-read it a few times over the first few months, just to make sure that I was
using all of the information in my photographic attempts. Once you've nailed exposure and understood how different apertures and focal lengths affect the look of your pictures, then you're pretty much free to get on with the business of looking for good subjects and will be more confident about how to use your kit to get the best results possible.
It
does take time to get to this stage though (weeks for geniuses, months for some people and years for others), although you will surely get there more easily by asking questions and reading good books.
If you haven't already seen this, could I recommend that you have a play with this online tool :shrug:? It's a simulator, which allows you to take (pretend) photographs using different aperture and ISO settings and illustrates how those changes affect the look of the final picture. It really made things clear for me

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http://www.photonhead.com/simcam/
The "
Shutter and Aperture" page is especially good ...
http://www.photonhead.com/simcam/shutteraperture.php
Before I go, I'd just like to offer some praise to you for posting this thread in the first place and for being so honest

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exactly what you mean when you talk about some members being "intolerant of newbies" - I've seen it many times. The problem for some members is that, IMO, they spend waaaaayyy too much time on this forum and read almost every single thread that gets posted. Then, when they see someone asking a question, which might have been discussed two days earlier by a different member, they make comments like, "
Use the search function, FFS!", "
If you don't know the answer to that question, you probably shouldn't be thinking of buying (
whatever piece of kit you're asking about)
that.". Or, they just post emoticons like this ...
:bang:
... and leave you wondering what they're so frustrated about!?
But, those people are in a minority and should be ignored, or better still,
reported! There's also 'cliquiness' and a lot of misunderstandings over what people really meant with the words that they chose to type - but that's Internet forums for you! It happens
everywhere.
To be honest with you, I gave up posting here for several months last year, because I was getting tired of this kind of behaviour. After a while, I realised that it was really
my loss, as there isn't a better (English language based) photography forum anywhere, that I know of. So, I came back and now I'm learning and being inspired all over again

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Stick with it, Briony! Photography's a great hobby and you're in the right place to learn more about it.