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I am not defending Dec in any way but if you've never lived with Alcoholism in your lives then you have no idea what it's like to be an alcoholic.
I lost my Big brother at 49 years old and my Partner lost her Father at 50 to the demon drink.
Alcoholism is nothing like smoking, you are in a clear mind when you pick up a packet of fags and spark one up as they say. I used to be a 60 a day smoker so I know, NOTE used to be.
I watched my brother lose everything in life including access to his Daughter to the drink, he started out with a few too many pints and ended up on a later and a half of vodka a day. He drove drunk and with my Mum in the car.
If you think Declans Mum shouldn't have let him drive, then your right but you won't stop an alcoholic getting behind the wheel they will do it regardless of the dangers. Alcohol takes away any common sense and dulls the thoughts, life becomes unclear and they live in a self perpetuating bubble. My Mum got in the car with my brother and his driving was shocking.
Alchohol dulls all the senses and takes away any inhibitions and sense of consequence, just look at the dicks that you see on CCTV acting up on a Saturday night after the pubs in town.
Declan in my opinion should have his licence revoked until he can prove he's been sober for at least 12 months which is unlikely in his present condition.
He needs to be helped to get to the bottom of why he drinks, there is always an underlying reason. There are thousands of alcoholics in remission who live a normal life but have been helped to find the reason to drink. As a public figure he is going to find it difficult to get to a point where he can be left alone to sort out his life, or maybe not but only he can decide and might never do that.
What he has done is unforgivable and needs punishment but if you've never been involved with an alcoholic then you can't really judge.
For those that think that Alcohol problems will never affect them then look around at work, on the street, in the local shop. It's all around us and is very easy to hide. Not every alcoholic stinks of booze they become devious by nature, drink vodka to cover most of the odour and hide that very fact.
Hopefully those doubters will never have to come into contact with it, but it happens from everyone who you think has everything to those that seem to have nothing at all. It's not a mental illness it's an addiction that covers up something else. It's not just a like the taste of, it covers up something that they cant cope with in life.
Declan has a demon that will kill him if he doesn't let that demon out.
Dec wasn't done for drink driving though..... hell he wasn't even driving the car unless telapathically
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