The display of the points is like a diamond shape....yes?
Well, you can either have all of them active (in which case the camera will focus on whatever bits are closest) or you can select which one you want to use. Generally, folk tend to go for the centre one, (thats also where the camera meters light from) but that's not always ideal. Whilst you can focus on something, lock the focus and then re-compose, it might be easier to learn how to select the spot you want to use that is closest to the bit you want in focus........does that make sense?