10 days in hell...

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Hi all.

My wife, Jane, and I have just been through what must rank as the worst 10 days of our entire lives. But look what we got at the end of it!

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Louis Benjamin Thorpe. Born 00:02 on 11/08/08 weighing 7lbs 15oz.


Unfortunately at 19:00 on the same day he was admitted to the Neonatal Intensive Care unit at Burton Queens Hospital with suspected Meningitis. As you can probably imagine at that point the entire world fell apart for both of us. One minute you're having a cuddle the next you're in an ambulance with the blue lights flashing.

The consultant at the NNU started treating him for Meningitis immediately as they simply don't have time to wait 48 hours for blood cultures to prove the diagnosis. The symptoms he presented were that he was convulsing and also incredibly irritable (the last one you could say is that he just takes after his dad).

He then went through about 2 dozen other tests including a brain scan all of which where clear, but he was still convulsing. With every convulsion would also come a desaturation of his blood oxygen levels, which was VERY scary! At this point the doctors started the first of 3 attempts to control this with drugs. It was the 3rd that did it in the end but he had now had so many injections/cannulas inserted in his hands/feet that they had to shave his head to insert one under his scalp.

The poor little thing looked terrible!

That was the end of Saturday. And with him now heavily sedated he was no longer convulsing. So it was simply a case of keeping him fed (via an NG tube), warm and stable until they could ween him off of the drugs and hopefully normalise him.

Thankfully all the tests were coming back negative but we were warned that we were now so far in, that if they did find the cause it would be very serious.

2 days later and they started to reduce his dosing and begin the process of normalising him.

Yesterday we came home. Still none the wiser as to how/what happened but so thankful that the people at the hospital acted so quickly and professionally.

We're now both absolutely paranoid that something else will go wrong and are watching his every single move for anything abnormal (but then, what is normal with a baby?). This will pass I'm sure and we both can't wait to start showing him off to friends and family.

(P.S. Monitor calibrator in the post TODAY).
 
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Scary!
I hope that this is the end of little louis's "problems" and you can get back to some sort
of normality ( what ever that is with a youg baby around the place :D)
Congrats to you both :thumbs:
 
Really glad to hear that everything has turned out OK for you all.
I remember getting a phone call one day from our childminder to tell us that our daughter Lydia had been rushed to hospital with suspected meningitis.
We almost killed ourselves getting down to Brighton childrens hospital and she just lay there, not recognising anybody.
They ran tests on her which all came back negative, we stayed overnight and were fearing the worst.
In the morning she was running around as if nothing had happened!

As I say, really glad that it has all turned out well
:thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:
 
wow, congratulations and also i'm glad to hear things are heading in the right direction..

the story should also help a few people on TPF get some things in perspective and stop whining :)
 
Congratulations and glad to hear that things are getting back to normal. That must be one hell of a scary feeling so soon after birth. Just coming to terms with having the baby in your life and then something so scary upsetting everything in what was already an emotional time after the birth.
 
Congratulations, what a scary and horrible time you must have had, every parents nightmare.
Glad to hear everything OK now:thumbs:
 
Congratulations !

Our daughter was born 5 and a half months ago and the birth was a very traumatic time indeed.

Once she was born everything went fine from there, but I still think back to how tough a time it was and how glad we were that there was nothing wrong with her afterwards.

Good luck to you and your family... Now the fun really begins :D
 
congrats - he is a beautiful baby!
 
many congratulations Meningitis is known to the wife's family her brother pulled through, glad all three of you are OK and doing well, it's living in a different world when somthing like this happens you can only watch and wait, my son was in SCBU to for different reasons, try to recharge your batteries you will need it, Baby's are tough little mites and throw many surprises at you mind you they never stop as they grow up pity us parents don't come with a grip with extra charge in, especially for the 2am feed, and the 4am ;)


All the best Mark.
 
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Glad to hear it all ended happily Nathan....congrats to you and the missus.

Bob
 
Congratulations on your baby, he is beautiful :love: So sorry to hear what you have been through, really hope everything will be ok! x x x x x x x x x
 
He's lovely and congratulations to you both. I can't imagine what you went through and I'm so pleased life has taken on a semblence of normality again - if that is ever possible with a new born!
 
Congrats :)

Normally being on the other side of your story it was really interesting to read about it from your point of view. Glad he is better :)
 
Congrats to you both on a lovely baby boy (and I love his name!) and so sorry you've been through that trauma - hopefully all is well and it can be put behind you very soon :)
 
Thanks everyone.

Well we've had a day or so at home together now and to be honest the last couple of weeks seem like a million miles away. The only thing that brings it all back is the postman delivering referral letters for his check up in 2 months.

I just need to get some lights sorted now :o)
 
scary times, he's gorgeous, hope everything goes well from here on in.
 
Congratulations Nathan, I hope that Louis troubles are over and you can get on with being kept awake by a happy, healthy baby.
 
Congratulations and I hope his health improves quickly
 
Congratulations! He's adorable. Sorry to hear you went through such a traumatic time. Hopefully the bad times are behind you now and you can get on with enjoying your little bundle :)
 
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