1) Set auto white balance on camera
2) Adjust colour temperature as necessary in Photoshop RAW dialogue (you can do this even if you shoot jpeg)
3) There is no 3)
I find AWB is fine for most situations, and rarely need much adjustment - perhaps a nudge to the right to warm up landscapes in hot places. AWB is getting close to being as reliable as auto focus for pretty much anything that doesn't need museum or product-shot accuracy. Anyway, it takes seconds to batch-alter WB in Photoshop or Lightroom.
Fair enough. I stopped doing weddings some years back. AWB was not as accurate and I was shooting jpeg - I used pretty much your method. But my cameras have been set to AWB for the last couple of years without any problems arising. For someone starting out, I reckon it's easier to use AWB and then do any tweaking in post when there is less panic going on.
Hmmm. Well, there we have to agree to differ. If you open a jpeg in the RAW dialogue (in Photoshop, Elements, Lightroom or any of the others as far as I know), I'd contend that you can alter the white balance without any significant loss of info - or quality. With a RAW shot of course you can make as many WB changes as you like with no loss whatsoever.
Can someone explained setting up white balance, in simple terms please. Eg I would like to take some photos in a church and have been advised to use a grey board to set up white balance, how do I do that?