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what does it mean when girls say lets have months break

and also when the ysay if u meet anyone else within that month i dont want to know about it?

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females are confusing creatures
 
i think youll find that may mean,

ive met this bloke and i want to know what hes like.

but instead of me completely breaking up with you i want to see how it goes with him first.

if the new bloke isnt all hes cracked up to be, she will come back to you within a month saying she wants to get back with you.

if she likes him you will probaly get another sentance.

if i were you, i would say, lets just forget about it.

surely she cant be that much into you if she needs a break??

or maybe she has alot on at the moment and cant handle the pressure of a relationship too?

but if your in a decent relationship she should know that you are there for her to help her out.

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I've never said that to anyone, to but to my mind, it sounds something along the lines of what DoubleT said.
 
Think of a plane with lots of flames coming from the engine as it plunges to the earth at 200 miles an hour.

Thats what "lets have a break" means
 
Haha you lot are crazy ;):)
 
yeah i do think she could kill me u know she is from northampton lol
 
Personally I would agree with DoubleT, your a brave man convincing her to stay. I hope it works out for u.
 
Did you never watch Friends? If so, the words "We were on a break!" should be tattooed on your brain! :lol:
 
She is basically saying "I want my cake and to eat it", or in non euphemistic terms: "I've found someone else already that I fancy a bit (and may have slept with too), but I'm covering myself just in case, so I shan't be sad and single if I actually make a definite decision about my relationships and it turns out to be incorrect. You don't mind sitting around waiting whilst I pork someone else do you? And if it does go wrong, you'll be happy to take me back, and tell me I'm not worthless and rubbish in bed after all, even though my self esteem will be low because the hunky new chap turned me down. And I'm sure you'll be okay to sit and listen to me complaining about him, because you and I are such good friends as well as lovers."

"Oh, and I'm sure you know, size doesn't matter".

Welcome to "Potential opportunity to avoid future heartache and do something for yourself" Population: YOU.
 
Oh my! You gentleman are so untrusting of the female sex! :p;):)
 
HanC said:
Oh my! You gentleman are so untrusting of the female sex! :p;):)
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My post was based on experience - only happened to me once, so a minor proportion of my relationship track record, but real nonetheless. I think with any situation like this, pronouncements like the one the OP passed on should not come as a surprise, and if they do, one should already be considering calling time on the relationship anyway.
 
marky_h said:
My post was based on experience - only happened to me once, so a minor proportion of my relationship track record, but real nonetheless. I think with any situation like this, pronouncements like the one the OP passed on should not come as a surprise, and if they do, one should already be considering calling time on the relationship anyway.
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Cant disagree with that
 
i think i got it sorted shes changed her mind with a little gentle persuasion :D
 
Yea, have to say that normally if one of the couple wants to go on a break then things cant be that great...having said that i do know of plenty of couples who have had that break and then got back together happier than ever. it can get very complicated though, i think it all depends on the individuals!
 
been with her a year and 2 months and everythings a ok now :D
 
At least women have the denency to let you know there is a problem men just vanish off the face of the earth:(
 
toothie are u burying them under ur patio again....i told u about doing that lol
 
I agree that sometime this "lets have a break" message can mean "I'm not sure about this relationship and I've met someone that I quite fancy and want to see if they're worth trading you in for, but if they're not, I want to comeback to you".

On the other hand, sometimes this sort of statement is made when one of the partnership is feeling a bit insecure, undervalued and unloved. They have no alternatives lined up, but sending a signal that they need reassurance from you that they are really wanted.

Sounds a bit like the latter and that you've provided that reassurance. Good luck.
 
Ashers said:
i think i got it sorted shes changed her mind with a little gentle persuasion :D
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" a little gentle persuasion" indeed!

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