As my kids would say:
Whatever :shake:
I suspect you examine the image on the rear of your camera and adjust to taste?
Don't think I have owned or used a reflected light hand-meter since 1970s, but always had a flash meter for studio.
For single light set-up, I don't use a meter but for anything more complicated a meter makes life so much easier to get light ratios right, or at least ball-park.
For final ratios though, I will go by the LCD image. A decent LCD gives a pretty good representation and is more reliable than a meter due to cosine law variance that can be tricky to predict. And as far as ratios is concerned, what looks right is right.
Then for final exposure setting, I will always check the histogram, probably push things to the right a bit, and take a very careful look at what the binkies are doing. After that, final expose settings could be as much as two stops away from what an incident reading 'thinks' might be right.
There are too many variables going that a separate hand-meter has no clue about. All it can do is make a standard exposure recommendation based on a set of assumptions that may or may not apply. The LCD, histogram, and particularly blinkies are the closest representation of what you've actually got. They're inherently very accurate, and if you know your camera and processing regime properly, it's hard to be wrong.