First piece of advise is to look at this choice as your first step into photography and that your fist camera basically buys you in to a camera system and that it defines how you move forward.
The worst thing you can do is rush out and buy the camera that has the most features as that
may end up being the wrong choice and ultimately very expensive. If you end up getting bitten by the photography bug and find that the system you have chosen was wrong and you may need to move to another system because your current system doesn't offer what you need.
My second piece of advise is to consider the DSLR body as something that you will probably want to upgrade in 2-4 years and when you come to do this it is effectivly worthless. Lenses, Flash, Tripods etc last much longer ultimately until they break.
I would suggest that you look at all the available systems out there and ask which system is most likely to meet your future needs.
I have started to produce a summary of all the main camera systems out there at the moment listing the pros and cons of each along side what might be considered an
aspirational kit in each system. This is the
thread that gives the link to my summary. When looking at it please note that the kits listed are what I consider to be kits that most serious enthusiast photographers would like to end up with
over time if they chose each particular system. In the next week I shall be updating this to show how you might go about entering each system and building up to the aspirational kit.