You could use it in various ways (and many photograpgers will be able to get away with not using it at all). I can only describe how
I sometimes use EV.
It is useful to know the subject brightness range of a scene, so that you can determine whether your recording medium (eg film, paper, or sensor) will be able to record details in the darkest shadows that you want to have detail, whilst not burning out highlights. For black and white film, I would seek to keep the subject brightness range within 6 stops. If the range is greater than 6 stops, there are some processes that can help reduce that range /contrast, such as use of a compensating developer, reducing the development time, etc. If the subject brightness range is narrow, you might decide to take steps to increase the range / contrast, for example by increasing the development time. I know that you are familiar with these concepts, based on your previous postings.
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can work out the subject brightness range without using EVs. For example, if you meter the shadows where you want to have some detail and the meter suggests 1/15s at f/4, then measure the highlights at 1/15s at f/22, that gives a subject brightness range of 5 stops. (because f/4 -> f/5.6 -> f/8 -> f/11 -> f/16 -> f/22 = 5 stops)
You can think of an extra stop of exposure as being the same quantity of increase of light as one extra EV.
Not all exposure meters display EV numbers, but those that do make it just slightly simpler to calculate a subject brightness range because you just need to subtract the EV measured for the shadows from the EV measured.
In this context, the photographer is likely to want to use a spot meter to get those separate readings for shadows and highlights. Also, it's more practical to make use of this information to optimise the film developing regime, when sheet film is being used rather than roll film.
Some large format photographs will record the range of EV settings for each frame, together with the actual aperture and shutter settings used, together with their thoughts on required processing (N, N-1, N+1, etc), either in a notebook or an app. I strive to be that methodical but rarely achieve it (except perhaps in a studio setting) because I find it hard to juggle the camera, notebook or phone app, alongside change my spectacles between reading and distance, and watching out for an incoming wave or an over-enthusiastic dog.