Ah I see.
We're the polar opposite.
4 kids (15, 6, 3 & 2) and and my wife Karen (teacher) has taken a sabbatical for 5 years
We're OK on my income but we're still 35K PA down
I know the feeling...we have two kids, both grown up now, but my wife gave up work after my daughter was born and we felt it sometimes. Of course, South Africa has no national health system - all private - and the government introduced fees at state schools just in time for us!
