I've given up on any family reconciliation. I did try but my sister just ranted down the phone and not only that she invented events which never happened and accused me of theft and criminal activity. All lies. I've bent over backwards and as my solicitor has confirmed I've been more than reasonable and I've gone further than I needed to with the lot of them. Since all this trouble in the family started one sister has died, her daughter having previously sent an insulting message to my wife is out of the picture and I'll never speak to her again, for my own health and for the sake of my marriage I'll have no further contact with my surviving sister or her son and daughter. I have some family down south and they've been very good but my local family is gone and I've accepted that.
And all this trouble started because I asked my two sisters to each come once a fortnight to give me and my wife the chance to get out for a few hours and not worry about our mother.